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NEVER TAKE A LOVE


Bayangkan orang yang selama ini kamu cintai, yakini & percayai memutus/diputus olehmu dan mengatakan "cinta tak harus memilki".

cinta, keyakinan & kepercayaan pada pacar & keluarg menurut kami kuwalitasnya sama. bedanya cuma keterikatan nilai-nilai budaya khususnya & agama umumnya.
lihat kenapa ada WIL/PIL, diforce, orgtua yang mengekpolitasi anak, anak yang membenci orangtua,KDRT, TTM, HTS, dll ya!dlm keluarga & pacaran semuanya sama & bisa dilakukn tergantung pemahaman agama, pembelajaran, nilai sosial & mental.
artinya itu semua secara subtancy cinta yang dibangun sejak awal & harus dimiliki karena amanat, kepercayaan & keyakinan dari tujuan semula.

kamu dengan mudah mengatakan "cinta tak harus memilki" pas keduanya (salah satu agnggota keluarga/pacarmu) tiada. nyesel dech lo!.itu baru namanya,cinta harus memiliki. yah basi lah???.
Jangan-jangan kamu dapati Tuhan baru & pada akhrnya kamu kecewa dengan Tuhan baru kamu & kamu menyesalinya, mencoba memohon padanya dll. iyah tuhan (atasan). Uda jelas-jelas salah & dimaklumi sama yang lainya. Nothing self-esteem inside donk!.

"tak harus memiliki" mungkin sama halnya dengan kamu suka ketelatenan wak Tarji, kgantengan cak Sapari, ke uletan neng Ngateni, ke hansonan mbah Saepan.
*orang-orang disekelilingmu yang punya potensi yang sama/tidak dengan keluarga/pacarmu. Tapi (MAAF!) mungkin kamu juga bisa menidurinya jika mau seperti layaknya suwami/istrimu & bahkan (MAAF BANGET!) pacar/salah satu anggota keluargamu (inseks).

Jangan-jangan,
Buat yang diputus & memutus jika kamu mengatakan "cinta tak harus memiliki" hal itu:
ya! bertahan hidup dengan mecari terbaik & bakalan gak ada yang terbaik untuk mencari & menemuinya. kamu keluar dari tujuan semula ato kamu menyesalinya hubunganmu/dengan alasn gak mau dia trluka (cepat/lambat pasti ada luka, jadi sama saja), dluar itu kamu melupakan tujuan semula & membuat tujuan kembali semula lagi & lagi. who knows?!we god listen every your steep.
ya... cinta! kasihan juga.

dalam kasus ini perhatikan langkahmu! untuk meminimalisir keadaan. seolah-olah ada yang mengawasimu.
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NEVER TAKE A LOVE
Conceiving one who during the time you love,belive & nextto break / broken by for you and tell the " love do not have to memilki
love the, confidence & belief of at girlfriend & keluarg of according to us quwality of is of equal. the difference merely cultural values binding specially & religion generally.
see why there is CRAVING WOMAN of is OTHER; DISSIMILAR/ OTHER; DISSIMILAR CRAVING MEN, diforce, old org is which mengekpolitasi child, hateful child of parent, KDRT, TTM, HTS, etcl yea! in family & special girl/man altogether is of equal & can dilakukn depended by the understanding of religion, study, social value & bouncing.
its meaning all by subtancy is love develop;builded by since early & have to be owned by because commendation, belief & confidence from target from the beginning
you easily tell the " love do not have it" snugly both (one of members family / your girlfriend) no. new nyesel dech lo!.itu of name, love have to own. hackneyed yeah???.
You don't discover the God newly & at yours end is disappointed with the new God of you & you regret it, trying to request at that etc. yup! the infinite ( superior). Wrong Uda clearly & tolerated by is of equal which others. Nothing Self-Esteem inside donkkkkkkk....!.
" do not have to own" possible is the same as with you like the "ketelatenan" wak Tarji, "kegantengan" cak Sapari, "keuletan" neng Ngateni, "kehansonan" mbah Saepan.
* people of your around of potency owner which is is of equal / do not with the family / your girlfriend. But (SORRY!) possible you also can sleep it if will like within reason suwami / your wife & even ( FORGIVENESS!) girlfriend / one of your family member ( inseks
Don'T,
Make broken & breaking if you tell the " love do not have to own" that matter:
yes! live on with the best searching & ll be caw there is best to look for & meeting of it. you go out from target from the beginning or you regret it your relation/ by reason of he do not want to injured ( quickly/ surely there is hurt, become is the same), that outside is you forget the target from the beginning & making target return from the beginning again & again. who knows?!we god listen every your steep.
yes... love the! pity also
in this case pay attention to yours step! for the meminimalisir of circumstance. impressing there is observing you.